We can figure out how to work together.
Consider us two people going on a road trip. I’m the navigator while you’re behind the wheel. The speed at which we travel is up to you, and you’re responsible for monitoring the weather and adjusting course.
I’ll tell you where to turn left, when to turn right, and when to keep going forward. The mile countdown is my responsibility, and I’ll suggest the most appropriate music for every part of our journey. I’m the guide – you’re the driver.
We’ll laugh together and cry together.
Sometimes, we will get along, and sometimes, disagree. I’ll support you and challenge you. All of it is rooted in validation, empathy, and growth.
Your journey to this point has likely been lonely and difficult. I cannot guarantee that this next part will not be difficult, but I can guarantee that you won’t feel alone as we journey together.
Now, I hope my family doesn’t read this page.
It’s well-known to my family and friends that I struggle with geography and navigating an actual road trip. In fact, on our fifth date, I was driving myself and my now-husband to dinner. While pulling out of the driveway, I told my husband, “Don’t tell me where to go. We’ve been there twice now. I know the way.” “You sure?” He asked. “Yes, why?” I said. “Because you’ve already gone the wrong way.” Darn.
I admit – I cannot find my way out of a paper bag. But, I make up for my lack of geographical knowledge with psychological navigation. I am happy to share my education and credentials with you later, but that stuff is boring, and I want you to keep reading.
So you can help make me perfect, right?
Of course not! Perfection’s not the goal!
Perfection is boring and lonely. What we’re after is balance. You’ll sometimes excel at work or school and feel lacking in being a parent or teen. Other days, you’ll feel great about how you connected with your family, and work or school took a backseat for the day.
We’ll work toward reaching a point where you can independently reflect on your days and find things you can do and ways you can think that create balance.
Between sessions, you’ll likely think things like, “I can’t wait to tell Rachel this!” or “Rachel will be so proud of me when I tell her I did that!” I welcome your success stories about how you independently navigated a part of our journey, and I invite you to share those same sentiments with yourself.
After all, this journey we call therapy is about YOU discovering, authenticating, and understanding you!
You are the traveler. I’m the travel guide. Let’s go on an adventure!
About Me
Yes, therapists see therapists.
I often get asked if I’ve been to therapy. The answer, of course, I have. I wouldn’t trust a therapist who hasn’t done their work, and neither should you.
I’ve been in the driver’s seat of my therapy car with several different navigators.
Here are the credentials I promised.
My graduate work was completed at Marquette University, graduating in 2011. I quickly got to work in an agency setting, working with adults with developmental disabilities for 4 years.
While the work was rewarding, my dream had always been to work in private practice, one-on-one with people. In 2015, I made that jump to private practice.
In 2024, I opened my own private practice, Understanding You, LLC! Between graduate school ending and starting my own practice, I met and married the love of my life, had two amazing children, and became a dog mom to the sweetest and goofiest English Cream Golden Retriever named Allie.
As a Human, I enjoy many things outside of therapy.
When I’m not working, I enjoy spending time with my family, not spending time with my family, unnecessarily reorganizing things, cooking healthy meals that my family complains about, and learning the lyrics to the latest Taylor Swift song my daughters are obsessed with to look cool. (That last one is a fruitless endeavor – I always seem to end up “cringe.”)
Springtime hobbies include counting how many fake springs we’ll get this year, getting seemingly endless carwashes as the snow continues to melt, and wondering when my poppies will bloom this year. In the summer, I enjoy vegetable gardening, hiking with my family, and enjoying anything my husband puts on the grill or smoker.
Autumn is my favorite season! One of my favorite pastimes is driving around Door County to view the changing leaves and contemplate how great it is to let things go. I love reading a good book by the fireplace in winter, but napping with a cozy blanket is my favorite. If napping were a career, it’s the only thing I’d trade being a therapist for. Heads down.